My daughter often complains about a particular friend who doesn't reciprocate the kind of energy to their friendship that she is giving. A friend complains about a similar thing in one of her friendships. We all experienced these kind of relationships in our lives, whether in a romantic, business or simply a friend. Often they make us feel empty and exhausted inside.
When both my daughter and friend confide in me about their frustrations, I simply have the same advice. They need to decide, “Can I handle only what this person can give me and except them for who they are?” If yes, stop complaining and enjoy them for who they are, even if it is a limited friendship, or sever your ties with them and be done.
They say as you get older, clarity sets in. Your experience with varying personalities helps you gain insight on how to handle all types of people. Eventually, this same question will arise, “Can I handle only what this person can give me and except them for who they are?” What will your answer be? Leave it to Laynie
