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Doing business or being friends with people of all different backgrounds is one of the freedoms we as Americans enjoy.  Learning from each other whether sitting by someone different in the classroom or workplace gives us invaluable insight on how others practice their heritage and traditions. Surrounding ourselves with various cultures helps make our lives richer.

However, when celebration or tragedy strikes, I feel at a loss.  How different cultures practice these life passages can be confusing to navigate.  I recently found out about a client who unexpectedly passed while away on a family vacation.  He practiced a different religion from me.  Being Jewish, I know exactly where to look for funeral arrangements, we only have 3 funeral homes to choose from in our community.  I also know well the customs that are observed and have a certain comfort in that.  I know a little how other religions practice this type of life transition, but I don’t even know where to begin? I started browsing the local paper for information.  It seemed impersonal way to start.

Can you really know a person that well just by getting to know them over coffee or sitting next to them at work? Laughing at jokes and enjoying their company in the work place or classroom?  Maybe by partaking in this last right of passage is the last way to really get to know that person. 

Rest in Peace Dave.  I hope your next part of your journey is a kind and loving one.